Writing Manners around the world/ choose some manners that are used in different countries
How not to behave badly abroad
NEF Grammar 136 3A a/b
Japanese manners
When the Japanese visit other countries on tours, the tour company educates
the group about manners and customs on the way. The Japanese themselves have an extensive collection of manners, that are interesting to learn. They say much about Japan’s world view and its culture.
1. Eating Directly From Common Dishes
In Japanese they don’t eat from common dishes. Put it on your plate first.
It’s best to collect a few things on your plate before eating.
2. Shaking and Bowing
Shaking hands is very common for business introductions in Japan. The most important
point here is to make your intentions completely clear with your body
language. Bowing and shaking at the same time doesn’t work and is just
awkward.
3. Playing with Chopsticks
Chopsticks should be used as little as possible. That is to say that people avoid
using them for anything other than eating. This includes using them to point at
things or hovering them over dishes as you consider what to eat. Beyond that they are a cultural item is showing some respect, using them as a toy can be considered disrespectful.
4. Cheers
The Japanese word for cheers is undisciplined.
When drinking in a group, people will wait for all drinks to arrive for a round of
cheers. It’s considered classy for everyone to order the same drink on the first
round, typically beer or sake.
5. Touch
The Japanese don’t use physical touch such as hugs
and are generally uncomfortable with such gestures from friends. Lovers also
tend to don’t use hugs in public places.
6. Taxi doors
Taxi doors in Japan is automatic. The driver will open and close the door. Many drivers get upset, when people open the doors.
7. Shoes
Shoes are never worn in someone’s home or on Japanese tatami flooring (mats). It is expected to take off your shoes in a restaurant, hotel, hot spring resort etc. There will always be a place to put your shoes. In addition, you will be given slippers to wear. There are often different slippers for the bathroom.
8. Names
Unless you’re very familiar with someone, it’s appropriate to address them with their last name followed by the polite prefix ‘- san’.